1. Your partner thinks
foreplay begins when he:
a. Comes to bed without his pajamas
b. Kisses you deeply while caressing your face, hair and body
c. Turns off the TV
2. When it comes to
discussing sex with a partner, you:
a. Rarely speak up -- you're not
comfortable discussing your desires with anyone!
b. Offer lots of "hints" -- you're not always
comfortable talking about sex, but you might move his hand or
show him a new position
c. Often initiate discussion -- you want to share your desires,
fantasies, even your complaints
3. The last time
you had sex, your mind was on:
a. Your pleasure and your partner's
b. All the household chores you had to do when you were done
c. A handsome movie actor or other male fantasy figure
4. Which of the
following have you done in the past month?
a. Worn silky underwear -- and made
sure my partner noticed it
b. Worn silky underwear -- and stripped it off in front of my
partner
c. Worn silky underwear -- not that anyone saw it
5. Your idea of
perfect sex is:
a. Doing it before you're too
exhausted to enjoy it
b. When both of you climax
c. Doing something experimental in the bedroom and finding that
it intensifies the experience
6. How long does your
lovemaking typically last, foreplay through climax?
a. One hour or more -- you like to
go slow; besides, one time isn't usually enough
b. 15 minutes or less -- your crazy schedule doesn't allow for
much more than that
c. In the 30-minute range -- just enough time for both of you to
(usually) feel fulfilled
7. When your lover
is undressing before sex, you are usually:
a. Helping him
b. Watching and enjoying the "show"
c. Reminding him to hang up his clothes
8. How often do you
have an orgasm during sex?
a. Hardly ever
b. Often but not all the time
c. Almost all the time
9. Your night table
drawer contains:
a. Handcuffs or other sexy toy
b. The book you're currently reading
c. Massage oil and scented candles
10. Your best
friend is in a new, passion-filled relationship. When she fills
you in on the sexy details, you:
a. Vow to yourself that you'll turn
up the heat this weekend at home
b. Share a few of your own dirty details with her!
c. Can't help feeling jealous -- you wish you and your honey
could be that way together again
