At
last, you are in to the home stretch. You may be experiencing all
sorts of conflicting emotions. On one hand you are eager to hold the
baby in your arms. On the other, you can’t help but wonder what kind
of mom you’ll make. And just like the bride who goes screaming down
to the altar, cold feet may be setting in.
So far,
your day-to-day concerns haven’t been about labor and birth, but
now, the reality of getting that baby out of your body is an
inevitable fact. Suddenly, friends and family and acquaintances dump
sensationalized birth stories upon you. Advice is everywhere, and
there is no where to hide. How could you possibly hide with a belly
the size of Mount Everest, anyway?
The
third trimester has its shares of aches and pains. Still, you manage
to decorate the nursery. With birth pending, you suddenly feel crazed
to complete old projects, and get the house in ship-shape for Junior.
Speaking
of which, the little one, now at 29 weeks, weighs two pounds and nine
ounces and is 13 and three-fourths inches long. His or her lungs have
been busy creating surfactant, a substance needed for breathing. If
born today, your baby’s lungs would probably do just fine on their
own; however, the last few weeks are important for the finishing
touches of lung development.
By 32
weeks, your baby measures 15 and one-fourth inches long and weighs
three pounds twelve ounces. Brain development is rapid. The eyes can
now track movement and the iris’ respond to light and dark. The baby
may move and sleep in more definable patterns, thanks to visual clues
from outside light that filters in through the uterus.
Relaxin,
a pregnancy hormone, is responsible for the softening of hip joints.
As a result, you may catch yourself waddling. Also, the large uterus
throws your posture off, causing you to have a slight swayback
appearance. This can cause backaches throughout the final trimester if
posture goes unchecked.
By 35
weeks, you baby weighs about five pounds and measures 16 and on-half
inches long, although height and weight variations are more common
now. From this point on, your baby will gain about a half-pound per
week. The survival rate, if your child were born today, soars to 99
percent.
Suddenly,
you have a lot of decisions to make. If you decided on a home birth,
is it still advisable? Will you breastfeed or bottle feed? Would you
like to avoid an episiotomy? Under what conditions would you consider
induction? Does a natural, non-medicated birth appeal to you? By the
time you complete the necessary reading you may be overwhelmed. No
wonder you can’t seem to figure out what to pack in your hospital or
birth center bag!
There
are many factors that can alter your visions of the perfect birth.
That’s why it is a good idea to look into birth plans. Discussing
labor issues with your doctor or certified nurse-midwife can help you
end up with a more ideal birth. However, always remember that the
ultimate safety of mother and child must outweigh any decisions made
previous to labor.
Toward
the end of the pregnancy, you may be concerned with a decrease in
fetal activity. While this is usually normal, due to less room in the
uterus, it’s a good idea to notify your practitioner at once if you
notice a sudden decrease in movement. Your practitioner may order a
non-stress test, which can evaluate your baby’s well-being through
an external fetal monitor.
You may
find that your weight gain slows at the end. Often times, weight gain
may even decrease right before labor. Despite this, your baby still
gains rapidly. By 37 weeks, your baby weighs six pounds and measure 17
and one-half inches, head to toe.
Up
until now, your baby has been covered with fine hair, called lanugo,
and a creamy substance that protects its skin, called vernix. Both
begin to disappear. The baby actually swallows some of this, and it is
stored in the bowels. This meconium will be released during the days
following the birth.
As you
get down to the wire, fears about labor and delivery are common. Will
you be in pain? Will the labor go on for days? Or will you be one of
the luckier ones? Actually, the ideal length of labor, for both mom
and baby, is between 11 and 15 hours. The average length of first time
labor falls into this ideal by lasting approximately 12 to 14 hours.
Most of longest part of labor, getting to three centimeters dilation,
occurs during the first nine hours when contractions aren’t closely
spaced together or very intense.
By your
due date, levels of amniotic fluid begin to decrease. Your baby weighs
about seven and a half pounds, although some babies can weigh as much
as three pounds more or three pounds less. Most likely, your baby
measures 20 or 21 inches from head to toe.
At last
you are prepared for the birth. You mark off the calendar as your due
date approaches ... and passes you by! For the vast majority of women,
labor occurs naturally before the 42nd week. More common in first
pregnancies, postdate babies need to be monitored closely. If the womb
environment becomes inadequate, the mother may be induced or a
cesarean may be recommended.
The
final trimester is an exciting time. Despite the aches and pains of a
normal third trimester, you can finally see the light at the end of
the tunnel. It’s a glorious moment when, after nine long months, you
newborn is handed over to you. Sleepily, the baby opens his or her
eyes to be welcomed by a very tired, but exhilarated, new mommy.