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Sex
is like an Art. There are many way to experience it. There is no
right or wrong, just be creative, you will learn as you practice more and
more, which only you can improve.
Here are some suggestion
experimenting with the following sexual positions:
Position if you are new to sex:
Missionary Position: In the missionary
position, the person with a penis is on top and take the dominant
role. The other person who is on bottom assumes the passive role.
Each person is lying down, stomach-stomach, face-to-face. It is one
of the true methods for intercourse. This is a great position. The
person on top has a lot of control over the degree of stimulation that
they get and the person on bottom can easily increase their sexual
pleasure by masturbating while simultaneously having intercourse. If the
partner on top is especially coordinated, she/he could also help
masturbate the person on bottom. Some of the techniques used to create an
intimate environment are eye-to-eye contact, guiding your partners hip
movements with your hands, massaging your partner's neck/back, nibbling
the other person's ears, necks or lips. And of course, whispering
something that only your partner can understand.
Position for couple who are
looking for new position:
A slightly more technically advanced position, than
the basic missionary position for the creative couple only. The
person on bottom and the person on top switch leg positions. The person on
bottom closes their legs. The person on top straddles the legs of the
person on bottom. Visually, it looks as if the person on top is doing a
wide-legged push up. The benefit of this position is simple: for the
person on top, additional stimulation to the penis and for the person on
bottom, additional sensations on the inner thighs. Expect to sweat a
lot, it is a great exercise.
Position For a woman who wants to
have sex for the first time:
Woman on top is recommended for women who are having
sex for the first time because it puts them in control of the situation.
The woman is in a position to engulf the penis at her own rate of
comfort. Of course the other person has some control of the situation too
because they are constantly talking/sharing feelings throughout this whole
experience. In this position, the person on bottom should tilt her or his
hips, back flat on the ground. This allows for an angle that often many
women enjoy. In this position, the person on top often lies atop with her
legs stretched out or bent. Sometimes, she may sit straight up and slide
up and down. Many women really like this position because of the added
genital stimulation. In addition, men can stimulate their partner's
vulva (and/or breasts and/or other body parts) with their hands or women
could masturbate themselves while having intercourse. Many people on
bottom find this particularly pleasurable because of the added visual
stimulation of seeing her breast.
Position for slow motion sex:
This position is for those people who enjoy slow
motion sex. The angle for intercourse is not conducive to vigorous
thrusting. Position the person with the penis sits cross-legged on the
floor. The woman sits on top of him, with her legs straddled around him.
They are sitting face-to-face. This creates a perfect opportunity to hug
for a few minutes and be intimate. Be careful that you do not fall over!
Sitting on top of each other and maintaining stability is a formidable
task for most people. Some people prefer facing the same direction. This
is preferable for those who feel less coordinated or embarrassed. You do
not have to face the other person. Great chairs include rocking chairs,
kitchen table chairs and, of course, the chair in the office. Sex on a
chair makes for a good study-break.
Position for quick intercourse:
A true quickie, for the super coordinated couple--
try standing and having sex. In the ideal world, both people would be of
similar heights, or one person could be strong enough to lift the other
person to reach the right level. Women need to tilt their pelvic, so that
the vagina is forward, and easier to access. The person with a penis
either need to squat a bit or have the woman be on a small stool. However,
if the woman is taller, then her partner may need to stand on the small
stool. This type of intercourse seems to work well on staircases in an
office building, down a dark alley, and other such forbidden places. I
highly recommend at least one person wearing a skirt or some other such
clothing, which will allow for easy access.
Now that you know some great positions, remember the
key to success is communication with a bit of variation. Sex can get
boring. If you normally prefer to have sex in the morning, try having sex
at night. If you normally have sex on the bed, try standing up. Catch your
partner by surprise. The most boring thing in the world is if you can
predict what your partner will do. If you find yourself never initiating
sex, initiate it few times in a day. If you find yourself always
instigating sex, then stop for a week and see how your partner
reacts to changing her/his role. If you normally start touching the
genital area, start by giving a backrub, which will turn into a front rub.
Change is the most critical part here.
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